how much sex do you get?

a few friends of mine have said after women get what they want, ie stable relationship,the sex tends to dry up.

have people here found this?

 

yet more bollocks im afraid.
nearly 10 years, wedding planned for next year, sex more or less every night unless xetreme tiredness gets in the way. In that case we make up for it the next night.

 

Hmmmm, you or your partner may well need to seek medical advice for this problem but first why not try a good quality lubricant?

 

I'm not sure this is true.... its when kids arrive that the sex becomes very infrequent.... and you won't care because you just want to get some sleep!

 

P.S. I read somewhere that the people enjoying the most and best sex are middle-aged couples whose children have grown up and left home.

 

It's that old "marriage" myth again eh? I think Alanbeeb is right on the money with this one!

My brother will kill me for saying this, but he's Catholic (uh oh - could get expensive!) and they have 4 kids. 1) they can't afford any more and 2) his wife's had to have C-sections on all of them, and 3) They're devout - so no johnnies. I guess all's quiet at their place when the lights go out...

 

That really is rediculous and irresponsible stance from a religeon in this day and age.

 

If you have the right partner and she is as insatiable as you I can't see an issue here.
Though everyone is different its a synergy thing again

 

None but then I don't really try, I have high standards and meeting people in clubs is not ideal at all, the only reason I go clubbing is to get drunk and listen to the music.

 

You dont want to have high standards at such a young age!

 

I am not that young anymore though, I am nearly 23 now. Well I am still young but I am certainly no teenager.

I am probably doomed really, as the I.T industry is not well known for the variaty of sexes. This one of the reasons why I am considering working for the public sector as it will likely to be a much better place to work socialy. although the money's crap.

 

ha ha, you make me laugh, AT, your a pleasure to have on the bb

 

how many are there in the public sector?

 

about 3 when I last counted...

 

male, female and bangkok chick-boys?

 

Dont for get Hairdressers as well as Ladyboys

 

Well Ive heard a few reasons for public sector employment but AT wanting to work with Bangkok chick-boys, ladyboys and hairdressers plus the boring old male and female varities is certainly a new one for me. What a dark horse.

 

You're preaching to the converted here, rsand (DREADFUL pun - I apologise!!!). God created athiests - that's what it says on our fridge.

AT - there are indeed 3 sexes - at least in the public sector place I work (which also happens to be one of the best paying employers in the South West): male/female/partially converted. I kid you not.

BTW - you and I park our cars in the same garage re clubs and women - how the hell are you supposed to communicate when you've got a flamethrower PA sqawking at too many dBs throughout the club???

 

Exactly and when you're supposed to wear hearing aids its just completly impossible. I feel so emberassed if ever a girl says anything in a club and it just sounds like "deh deh deh da".

 

AT,

having worked in IT for 16 years I think you are under estimating things big time.

Remember you do get to deal with lots of business people - these do not include your normal IT geeks. Just make sure you don't get to work for a software company - in which case my advise to you is... PANIC.