Anyway, I've read the thread.  Thank you to Stumblin and those of you that don't think we are all alike.  What does a 30 year old woman want?  Well, it depends on the woman.  Fancy stuff?  Not for me.  Unless it comes to camera equipment, then I'd have to say ok.  All those shoes?  Hell no.  Give me something I can walk in and I'll wear it everyday for years.  Big house?  Nope.  Fancy things inside it?  Nope.  Space to do my own thing and let my man do his?  Yes please.  Do I need a man to tell me how to get somewhere?  Nope.  I can read a map.  Do I have to have him take me?  No.  I have legs, I can get to a bus stop. 

Yes, I am quite different than some women, but most of my friends are like me.  Most of the women that work out at the dojang I work at are like me.  Just because one woman is a pain in the bum, doesn't make all of us that way.