Actually I blamed it on people wanting a windup to pass the hours.

I am confident of the fact I am not being wound up and I am dismissive of others attempts to do it as it is clearly a waste of time, if they did but realise it. Hifi simply isnt that important, I am rather calm by nature and I am perfectly secure in my choices. In the name of sportsmanship however I will let them chase a little as they seem to need it.

My narciscism could also be the product of actual achievement fostering my huge ego . I am entirely aware it rubs people up the wrong way and I am not at all puzzled by the reactions it gets from other people who also have large egos that I fail to accord the respect they believe they are due. Like bob. Who no doubt thinks he has got me sussed and thinks he is playing me when in fact it is quite the reverse and I am sniggering as he takes the bait and affords me an opportunity to indulge my interests in psychology.

A narciscist beleives they occupy a special place in the universe. I do not - my offence is to beleive that noone else holds a special place either.

All together ... OMMMM! Ommmm! OHHMMM!