Darren is of course totally correct. I fell for a girl many years ago in a place I worked, totally and utterly smitten. I made a right **** of myself, got people to speak to her for me and all that, groan just thinking about it made me cringe.

In the end I just stopped, went cold turkey and for all them months she ignored me, played me and told me to stop, as soon as I moved on she was over me like a rash.

I saw her some years later and wondered of course what all the fuss was in my mind, I walked away confident she wanted me hahahahah.