God lets hope none of us will be faced with that dilema.

I would do everything I can to talk them out of it and do everything in my power to make sure I am never in that position.

I think it would have to be 2 though I don't know. I just don't know how I can let a 12 year old have sex and know about it.

I could always make her have the snip, but then there are moral issues around that.

The question is actualy very very hard because either one of them is wrong. I probably would go towards the grounding becuase at least I have done somthing to try and stop it, but is that a selfish view point?

I have no idea, this is beyond me.