Dear Adam
Thanks for the links (I ordered the book) and the link. And also for the warning! Well, I have nothing against suffering, and I do not really need a happy ending. But that said, I fear a little I will love it too much. As a matter of fact, that has always been my problem with Wagner... I fear I may be trapped into his music.
But yesterday I was thinking about the merits of simple melodies and comparing them to 'deep' music (a CD with Schmeltzer music brought this). And, by a tortuous process, I remembered how you can have both and be profound, melodic, desperate and, at the same time, crystal like: I played, in my mind, bits of the a minor fugue from Bach, BWV 904b.
So if I begin to mention this particular fugue, that will mean I am getting hooked on Wagner. If so, my family will be instructed to suggest you pay the hospital bill
Many thanks.