Why should the church be exempt?

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    IMO, no. Perhaps it was the way I was brought up.

    Edit: perhaps I should elaborate. Being a parent, I can never see any justification for abusing children. However, if my upbringing was different, say I was abused as a child and thought this was normal, I might feel differently.
     
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    I-S Good Evening.... Infidel

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    If it remains harmful then no, it would not be acceptable. I can't envisage it not being harmful so I see no situation under which it would be acceptable. Can you?
     
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    There are cultures where paedophilia is acceptable, at least in a limited way. There is at least one tribe somewhere where when a girl has her first period she has a coming of age party which culminates in the male elder of the tribe taking her virginity. I'll try and find more details to back this up but it was on a BBC documentary a while back.

    Also, there are a fair number of western (even European) countries where the age of consent is 13. Is an adult from one of those countries who has sex with a 13yr old kid a paedophile? By who's definition?

    Wolfgang - comparing paedophilia to homosexuality as you did was IMO, a bit crass. AFAIK paedophilia (lets define it as people who seek out sex with pre pubescent children) is a form of mental disorder that can usually be traced back to one form or another of abuse during childhood. Homosexuality OTOH is something one is born with and it's not the result of any childhood "environmental" factors.

    I know I've just opened up the nature vs. nurture debate but it's now pretty clear that homosexuality is a case of nature and not nurture. The paradox of "if there's a gay gene then how did it survive so long" had some light thrown on it by recent research showing that women with close gay relatives are more fertile, suggesting that something about the gay gene (or genes) is beneficial to the survival of the human race (in Darwinian terms). I don't think anyone's ever so much as suggested that there might be a paedophilia gene or a necrophilia gene or any other "insert sexual perversion here" gene.

    Couldn't agree more allthough I'd say "organized religion" rather than religion. As Julian said, personal spirituality not tied to any organized religion is quite a different matter.

    Michael.
     
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    Your statement is wrong because it is (thankfully) untrue. Paedophiles have existed in small numbers.

    You are also on shaky ground because while 'homosexuality' is well defined, 'paedophilia' is not. It depends on the definition of 'child' and that varies widely around the world. Some societies define puberty to be the onset of adulthood without reference to a specific age. Some societies have no concept of an age of consent. About the only thing we do all agree on is that non-consensual sexual activity is wrong - but then we have a different word for that. It's called rape and age is irrelevant in the definition of rape. Where consensual sexual activity is concerned, the definition of what is and is not paedophilia varies widely dependent of the standards and prejudices of each society (and any religions they may adhere to).

    And much of what they contain embodies the popular prejudices of the men who wrote them.
     
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    Nice one Chris - you said what I was tyring to say, only much more clearly and more efficiently :)

    Michael.
     
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    I-S Good Evening.... Infidel

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    Nice to see that this debate has so far remained intelligent and reasoned...

    However, I will rephrase the original question. Why does employment law and social responsibility not apply to the church?
     
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    From a legal standpoint I have no idea. Do religious organizations that are also employers have a special exemption?

    Michael.
     
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    technobear Ursine Audiophile

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    I'm not sure that the Church of England is an 'employer' in the usual sense. I've tried having a dig around the C of E website and found this:

    So who does employ the clergy? And to what extent do all the usual employment laws we know and love apply to clergy?
     
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    technobear Ursine Audiophile

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    Here is an interesting link:

    http://www.churchinwales.org.uk/gb/apr2004/rb review/7_clergy.html

    and a quote from it:

    So it would seem that currently the clergy are not employees and the Church can do what it likes with regard to who it allows to become clergy with no heed to employment law :rolleyes:
     
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    I-S Good Evening.... Infidel

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    No doubt the answer will be along the lines of employed in the service of god....

    Nice get-out clause really.
     
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    The Sex Discrimination Act (easily findable on the web...) contains clauses like the following relating to Clergy,
    While we have freedom of religion we have to allow religions to discriminate. I don't see the problem. It's like any employer being allowed to choose employees based on their ability to do the job. A gay priest is a contradiction in many doctrines, like a blind taxi driver.

    Paul
     
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    technobear Ursine Audiophile

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    Just so I have got this clear then:

    At the same time as we have laws to prevent discrimination on grounds of race, sex, sexual orientation, age, etc. and government bodies to ensure that these laws are enforced, we also have religions whose servants are free to promote some or all of the above discriminations without fear of prosecution.

    :newbie:
     
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    I-S Good Evening.... Infidel

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    If that was applied consistently paul, it would be difficult to argue with.

    However, take the case of Dr John (not the bluesman!)... As a gay member of the clergy, he is accepted as being able to do his job. But on the suggestion of promotion to being a Bishop, there is outcry. Yet people are ok with him being a Dean.

    This seems inconsistent.
     
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    You don't seem to have it clear.

    Would you agree that it was reasonable to discriminate against blind people when employing bus drivers?

    Paul
     
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    Isaac,

    People are strange, especially when they have strong irrational beliefs. The question here is whether the law should be involved.

    Paul
     
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    and of course the law is an ass so it's all perfectly logical.
    cheers


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    technobear Ursine Audiophile

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    Discrimination against a blind person would involve preventing that person from doing something they are capable of doing. A blind person is NOT capable of driving a bus. That's not discrimination. It's common sense.
     
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    Good thoughts. I was going to explain in length why peadophilia was chosen as an intentional counter arguement. However, window decided to freeze again...... ahhhhh..... why can't they get this thing to work.

    Edit.

    Let's try again.

    As I was saying it was intentional to use paedophilia as a counter argument to see if we really believe when a human behaviour which is recognise as common and prevalent in all cultures must mean it is normal or indeed acceptable. Paedophilia is also common. It also has been observe in many societies and indeed has been recorded since, recorded history. It is just that in this part of our world and period no one would even consider it acceptable. Is paedophilia a disease or inborn sexual preference too? If some one manage to link this behaviour with a gene does it make it suddenly tolerable too? Homosexuality is a human behaviour that has been made a sin by western culture for some time but seem to be accepted long ago by certain section of Indian culture. In fact one wonders if there seem to be an affinity to people with artistic personality. It seems there is a strong movement by the beautiful people in arts, in the media and politicians to champion this behaviour since it is common at least among them. It is up to the society to decide what is acceptable within our time period.
     
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    chris,
    in the la la land of organised religion the analogy of blind person / bus driver and e.g. gay man / priest does hold true. according to 'church law' being homosexual does disclude you from being a priest.
    also, once again, in the whacky world of organised religon being a homosexual is a trial visited upon you by god, you are supposed to rise above it, get married, have kids and go to heaven.
    i guess if you were a closeted homosexual you could be a priest THEN as you'd be doing things the church's way.
    i remember seeing a documentary on tv a while ago about some american church that was 'curing' homosexuals. there were a number of gay men 'fighting their affliction' with families and children - as if the divorce divorce rate wasn;t high enough already.

    -I must add that i'm not advocating any of the above, but having been arround some pretty rabid religous types i know how they think and thought it would be fun to share a glimpse into their mentalist minds.
    cheers


    julian
     
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    I think where the problem lays is the word "job",i.e they are getting paid for it,a wage,which is where the church is IMHO wrong,they are "supposed" to follow the teachings of christ,and the bible,so would need to look at Jesus, and ask was it a job for him?did early christians get paid? I guess the answer is no,but the Church has made it a career where you go up the hierachy,you don't even have to believe(Bible),its just a job,money.So there lies the problem,the original idea has been changed by them ,like alot of other things,there commision say, is to teach the Bible,and that is all of it,not just the bits that suits them,clearly if they believed the bible,God forbids clearly homosexuality,meaning just that,not that these people should be treated different to others,look at the type of people Jesus preached freely too.There is your answer,being a Christian shouldn't be a Job,but a lifestyle,I think the history of the Church has alot to answer for,burning people at the stake for trying to read the Bible,witches,peadophiles,too many things that are contrary to the bible.

    So I guess the simple answer to Isaacs question would be,working for a company is a job,no discripencies,like colour,religion,sexual orientation,where the church shouldn't be viewed as a job,and just teach to thoes who want to hear,free choice,what the bible says.IMHO.
     
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