You cannot compare in that way.
You'd be quite shocked if you had a live performance in your living room, let alone the confines of a shower room!
You simply cannot transplant the dynamic range and shear scale of a live, unadulterated performance into a typical listening room and expect to enjoy the results.
You
have to compress it and scale things down in order to make the performance listenable in a comfortable way in your home.
All systems give a version of reality but none do and none should give everything. I include the recording chain in the system.
Yes we want low distortion, low colouration and a system that interacts well with the chosen acoustic environment but you certainly don't want 'real' dynamics - you couldn't handle it nor would it be a very enjoyable experience. Incredibly fatiguing in fact.
Of course that is no excuse to go squashing the life out of every performance but it does call for skill on the part of the recording and mastering teams.
Our hi-fi systems should produce neatly packaged and exquisitely finished miniatures of the real thing. In that form they are readily digestible