But EQ isn't applied in the time domain, only frequency, whereas standing frequencies take a while to build up - half a second or so - hence if you EQ down such a peak in frquency (only) you unnaturally weaken the leading end (in time) - is that not so?
The key phrase here Steve is, as I said, a domestically acceptable solution at LF.
I suspect all conjugal rights would be removed forthwith if I were to install a dozen or so 2ft by 4ft porous absorbers about the living room and fill each corner with Superchunks; and I'd suspect a similar reaction would be forthcoming from others spouses (knowing the female of the species as I do).
Acoustically treating a room is, all things considered, the better solution compared to eq provided (a) you can get away with it and (b) you fully realise what is involved to be successful. I've done this in my former singleton days for my recording studio.