Thanks there is nothing anybody can do really, I am just confused at the moment, as I know his death could have been prevented, but then if it was at that age somthing else might have happened and at least he is not in pain any more. I am probably going to my uncles this afternoon so at least I will be around imediate family. I am just worrying about my mum and my grandma. The last time I saw him I was having a good conversation with him so that helps.