My girlfriends gone crazzzzzy! (long winded & personal)

Try spanking - works for me every time.

 

IME girls change a hell of alot between 18-21, well everyone does but I think its alot more apparant in girls. Ive found the older they are the more stable things are. Its just biology Im afraid.

 

Shouldn't be soooo bad then as you're a similar age. They say women mature faster than men, and physically, that's true, but emotionally, I'm not so sure...

Don't be so forthright as me when you do though! I'm useless with women, although that said, oddly, my advice often works for mates... Bizarre!

 

I have read most of it but it'd be much better if you read it yourself. Even better if you could get your g/f to read it aswell.

It's basically about the fact that men and women have completely different ways of communicating and therefore they either don't communicate well or simply fail to communicate at all which leads to misunderstandings, arguments and often the end of a relationship.

The things you've said in this thread seem to mostly fall into the "communication failure" category. I strongly recommend you read the book. You don't have to read it from cover to cover, even reading the first chapter will help you understand a lot.

IMO the vast majority of divorces/ends of relationships are down to quite simple failures to communicate.

Probably the most important tip I can give you from the book is that when your g/f is talking to you about her problems (home life etc) just listen and comfort her and whatever you do don't try to come up with 'solutions'.

Michael.

 

Best thing you can do with a woman is just sit and listen

 

If i ever beat my older brother at something Id just get beat-up, I learnt fast.

 

Precisely. And then they'll wear themselves down and tire out and it'll be easier for you to communicate with them Just kidding btw

 

You're 19, bin her.

 

Ouch! That's harsh, even by my standards, Jools

 

Yeah but he's 19. What is this, the 18th century?

 

Yeah 'cos all the other tarts around here are so much nicer

Call me mad, but I'd like a meaningful relationship!

 

Without wishing to sound harsh, it sounds very much like your girlfriend no longer really wants to be part of the relationship. The manifestation of this is her being angry at you and insulting you even though you've done nothing specific wrong.

The problem being that the resentment is always there, no matter what you do or don't do.

Have you considered that she might be doing what many people in such situations do... pushing you to dump her?

 

Most people want a meaningful relationship, forgive the imposition but sounds to me like the meaning of yours is "my girlfriend is a pain in the arse" At 19 I recall thinking I was all loved up but frankly I was well out of it.Half the population are female I'm sure you can find another who better suits your requirements. Besides she does sound a touch mental!

 

Hmmm...sounds like the Forum has spoken Tenson. I'm afraid you're going to have to get rid of her. Local ZG staff will be around to help with the task if you should fail to succeed.
You have 20 days to comply.
Good luck.

 

And if you don't, we'll send someone around with some eltax speakers and a mini-system.

 

Thats harsh.

 

Yeah, it probably would be... Depends of course what cables are used.

 

Cat5 of course.

 

......and the rack its placed on, personally Id say man............

 

Juboy nail hit head.

She wants out but does not have the guts to tell you.

Behave like a grown up and bin her, then get on with your life.

Don't give it all that about being in love with her, this does not sound like love it sounds like both of you non committed, and why should you be, your only kids.

Bin her before she bins you.