Hi Jesse & Gundam
The Yamaha NS1000M's are one of the most fussy speakers to set up and get the best out of that I have ever owned. I was totally off target with the placement of them until I received a copy of the Owners Manual, (if you want a copy, PM me with your e-mail address), I installed them and I could not understand what all the fuss was about. I would never of envisaged that they are to be set up close to the rear wall. This goes against everything I thought that I knew. But it is correct.
They need very good stands, I am lucky that I have the contacts to be able to have made what I want. I ended up with an open frame of 25 mm square tube on the top and bottom with 4 pieces of flat bar connecting the top and bottom frames together (1 at each side and two accross the back). All fully TIG welded. They have downward and upward spikes, due to the weight of the NS1000M's I also made the stands so that the spikes can be adjusted whilst the speakers are in-situ. All metal used was stainless steel, powder coated in a metallic graphite black (a bit like a metallic black car) total cost £75.00.
The NS1000M's are not a plonk down, play and be amazed type speakers, they need to be worked at to get the best out of them, it took me 2 -3 weeks. But they are so responsive to other system components, they are an amazing 'tool' for determining changes even to cables, in which I am not a big believer, (but that is another subject) they will teach you a lot about your system components.
As for setting the mid and high controls, trust your ears grasshopper. Don't think that it is 'wrong', 'incorrect', or that you have 'faulty hearing' if you need to turn them down (or up). I have the Mid at minus 2 and the high at minus 3. A word of caution, at the minus 3 level, in my system, the high changes markedly with the smallest of movement, even half of the thickness of the marker line on the control is the difference between 'right' and 'wrong'.
Wadia-meister,
You will not get flamed by me because we don't both like a particular product. If there was a 'right' component for all tastes the audio world would be very boring. I have been around long enough to realise that two people will never hear the same sounds from the same gear, no right or wrong, just different opinions.